Hey Bri --
Keep in mind the 3353 is the silver version, you may want the 3373 black instead? Also, make sure you check which connector the 3373 has on the end - apparently some come with a 1/4" tip, but mine came with a 5/8" stud. If you have the 1/4" male thread tip, the adapters you want are:
Model | Starting Thread | Ending Thread
3111 | 1/4"F | 3/8"M
3366 | 3/8"F | 5/8"M
If you have the 5/8" stud, you need:
Model | Starting Thread | Ending Thread
3102 | 5/8" F stud | 3/8" M thread
3366 | 3/8"F | 5/8"M
Can't help much on the taller stand, except to say I know others have used the Bogen stands with much success.