What it boils down to is, most of us are friends here. If you come in and act like a dick to a friend, you get called on it. This is one of the least uptight places I've been, but to show up and tell people how to act, and claim that folks on here have no social lives and have something to prove, it doesn't go over well, especially to complain about how you're treated after telling off people who have been around for a while. Lay low for a bit, hang out...I'm not saying there aren't assholes on the board, but by and large, folks are friendly as long as you don't jump down their throats.