Those cables you linked from Amazon will do the trick but they seem a little expensive. Those Rean branded connectors aren't cheap though, they are very nice connectors that should last quite a while.
Unsolicited comment - if you are using these for stealth and are running the bodies look at getting a pair of PFAs from Naiant. You take the bodies (preamplifiers) out of the equation, shrink the setup and take a pair of cables/connections out of the path. No change in sound quality either. That's the only way I ran my HOs.
The nomenclature is as it appears in the ad you linked - TA4M for the male connector (with pins) and TA4F for the female side (with pin receptacles).