Oh yes.. and this said community says because I don't circulate my shows, they don't want to know I'm taping them.
Yes, please take a dig at me by saying "play this never heard before song at this show because said taper will be taping" then when I kindly remind you I tape say "well since you don't circulate it doesn't matter".
ie:
"I'm thrilled that the band loves that you tape and supports your situation. Fabulous. I'm so happy for you. I'm thrilled the band will receive copies fedexed to them overnight... I'm sure they're pining waiting for them. I don't care if you tape. If you're going to ciruclate them, awesome. If not, don't even bother telling us... it's like putting a dollar on the end of a string and making people chase it knowing that you'll never let people catch it, or in this case hear it. I would rather think a show went untaped than know that it was taped and that the taper wouldn't release it."
and then someone else PLEASE chime in:
Now, I agree with you that she shouldn't openly be saying she's taping the show, as most of us would assume that it would eventually see the light of day. But since it most likely won't be in the near future (until proven otherwise by said-mass-conversion), I think the best thing to do is just let it go. Assume you won't see it, and just ignore any mention of her taping in the future.
DO YOU EVER FUCKING THINK THAT MAYBE YOUR GODDAMN MENTALITIES ARE WHY I DON'T FUCKING CIRCULATE?
YOU WANT THE SHOW GO TAPE IT FOR YOURSELF.
DON'T BITCH AT THE PEOPLE WHO DO TAPE WHEN YOU'RE NOT WILLING TO SPEND THE MONEY AND TIME TO TAPE THE SHOW, MUCH LESS CONVERT IT FOR THOSE WHO DO TAPE.
*ahem*
Oh, and don't remind me that the band knows the name of the BBS.. I know that. I'd have the same argument with you people in front of them or on a message board.. And the fact the band knows my situation and THEY understand it is all that matters to me...