You're not gonna match them by ear...
This would be similar to the "bit accuracy test"
OK - here's what you do, bring a laptop with PocketVX (or some other way to get analog line in or digital into the laptop) & Wavelab/Soundforge, a preamp, boombox & CD with a track of white noise on it and a CD Player. Play the CD while recording with the mic plugged in, 1 meter away from the speaker. Do the same thing with all the mics you can get them to take out of the box. Start doing the "bit accuracy test" (someone point out a link to this please) with all your recorded samples (1 minute should be good - label the mics and the samples so you know which is which), and the pair of mics that get you closest to zero is the "matched pair".
Theory being (like the bit accuracy test), that if you put the 2 samples out of phase with each other, they should zero out with equal amplitudes at the same frequencies. Any remaining signal, indicates the "inaccuracy/mis-matched sensitivity" at that frequency. The pair of mics that have the least amount of mismatch, are the matched pair.
While being somewhat un-scientific (and probably drive the salesman out of his frikkin mind), if you position the mics as close to the same place as possible, and shoot a reference sound (white noise being equal amplitude at all frequencies) you should get in the ballpark.
I paid big $$ for a "supposedly" handmatched pair of TLM-170's, and I really think they just stuck any old pair in the box. Without test charts either - for $3700 you think you'd AT LEAST get frikkin test charts.
Rick