WOOO HOOOO!!!! I stumped you all (scratching my chin / evil laugh)
I actually got a responce from doug oade (the ultimate unstumpable default info guy) He said I can get the connectors at any electronics store, and to just make sure I cut at a near perfect 90deg angle with either a razor blade or a special cable cutter. then peal the insulation back and put on the connector. I'll look around for a connector, but so far radio shack is a no go. Thanks moke for not makin' me feel unloved! +T back atcha!
Matt