set the attack to 1ms, set the threshold to -18db, set the release to 500ms, at a ratio of 2:1
I agree that compression is what your looking for. I would urge you to try some different settings out though.
1ms attack is likely gonna lose transients, I'd try a higher number than that. When the compression kicks in too fast it will dull your high end, listen to the cymbols. The -18db threshold might be a little low (might be fine) I'd start closer to -10db but again, play with it. 500ms might be a bit long and take away from your bottom end, I'd play with samller numbers. 2:1 sounds like a good place to start.
Use your ears though, what he said might work fine but you should play with the settings some and not just plug that in and process it. Good luck!
Oh yeah, your gonna want to make up for the compression with a little boost in gain. There should be some sort of "makeup" gain on the compressor, bump that up 2-3 db to bring the overall levels back up.
Your basically bringing up the low peaks, taking down the high peaks and then bringing it all up a little bit. Your dynamics will be closer but with the right settings not lost...