Can anybody suggest a quality cassette deck (besides a dragon) that would be ideal.
i personally use a Denon DRM-740. it's an excellent deck for playing back analog tapes, and it's a
3-head deck. from what i've read, newer decks aren't as good for playback in terms of quality. (which makes sense - when analog cassettes were more popular, obviously the technology would be geared for that format during that time perdiod. plus, i've yet to find a new cassette deck that has 3 heads, as opposed to 2 heads, for less than a large chunk of money.)
to the OP (original poster), as far as dithering, Tim's suggestion of using WaveLab is good. Adobe Audition (formerly known as Cool Edit) will probably do a decent job of it as well, but possibly not as good as WaveLab.
macdaddy - i wouldn't say you're wasting your time. if your final format that you want for your transfers i'd CD-audio (16/44.1), then that setup you're running looks quite nice. however, if you are wanting higher resolution transfers (to put onto DVD discs for playback), then you *might* want to look at changing your setup.