I recently bought a Sony ZV-E10.
It's a new, smaller-body (they removed the viewfinder to make it more compact) version of the venerable Sony a6400, but with updated color tech inside, no video time limits on 4k/30, and USB-C with great features for streaming, USB-C charging, etc.
That means that it takes great pictures like an A6400, takes fantastic unlimited 4k video with really good autofocus that is better than anything else in the same price bracket, it can use the same Anker USB-C batteries you use for your mixpre's and stuff which makes it great for open taping, and it's really easy to also use it for zoom and stuff. It's also tiny and lightweight.
If you don't need a viewfinder (or don't mind plugging a little external one into the very fancy hotshoe it has when you do need one), I think this camera is ideal for most of this crowd.
If you're sharing it with your girl, you may also note that this camera and the very similar a6400, a6100 are used by the youtube beauty community a lot for filming youtube videos, as they make people look nice (unlike my older compact sony digital cameras, which for some reason always made people's faces look worse than in real life)