A normal tape deck would under bias the tape because greater bias levels are applied to type II tapes when recording. Normal bias tapes require less bias signal. So I would expect the tape to sound a bit duller.
So, I am thinking that the brightness you are hearing is from the playback eq of the tape deck you are using.
You might be able to fake it out by covering up the holes at the top of the tape shell.
(see the picture here under the section called tape types)
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tape_cassetteAnother way to try to compensate for this is to try some playback eq with software. According to this link, dolby NR works by compressing the region above 1kHz (this is a generalization) and expanding it upon playback.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dolby_NRYou might get some fairly good results by applying a hi-shelving eq to 1khz and above. You want to apply a broadband drop of that entire region. A good tool for this would be the Har-Bal mastering eq from here:
http://www.har-bal.comYou can use it to design a filter that can be reused. Think of it as an equalizer with 4096 bands. As frequencies are dropped in level it applies makeup gain to keep the level about the same. You could experiment with the demo to see what kind of result you will get.
I can't tell you specifically how to do this in Wavelab or Cooledit. But if they have a hi-shelving tool that would be all you would need.