Chiming in on this, I have found that trial and error (minimizing the error part as much as possible) works pretty well. As Simon said, sitting up front maximizes your S/N ratio, but for chamber music the applause is going to be the loudest sound you get and I think it a mistake to try to keep this from overing, a distorted clipped clap is - just a clap, and the asshole whooping into your ear can be cut out from the final tape in most cases (except at the opera where they go nuts while the music is still playing, because after all no one is singing). For DPA4060s > MMA6000 into either a D1 at 8 or a Sonosax MiniR82 at 0dB = 0 dBu, the range of settings I have found (YMMV, but the range should be comparable) is average +20dB for a piano recital up close, +22.5 to 25 dB further back in the hall, +17.5 to 20 for opera front row, +15 or 12.5 for the loudest orchestral music (Bruckner, Mahler) right up front. With those settings I sometimes have to boost a bit in Wavelab (at 24 bits not a major issue with this gear), and sometimes I come close to running too hot, but no tapes wrecked by clipping lately. Definitely set and forget, since playing around with equipment is the leading cause of getting bounced from halls ("for life," well not really) especially if you follow the advice to sit up front!
Jeff