stuff between songs = limit to about 3db under where music peaks.
stuff during songs (trickier) = use a compressor to compress just the sounds that are above the musical threshhold. It's doable, but it requires some finesse at your depth/engage settings. Read up on general use of a compressor first and then play with it a lot. You're first couple of attempts will likely not sound good if you review them later, but thats part of the learning process. If you want to be easy cheesy, then you can just limit to just inside the where the music peaks but I'm not sure it will be quite as good.