yeah, i consider myself to be pretty good at soldering nowadays, but i still don't trust myself with someone elses equipment. if i ruin my own stuff, its me who's pissed off - if i ruin yours, then i have to reimburse you for it and you hate me for the rest of your life.
and honestly, i got good at soldering because i messed up modding my xbox and had to solder traces back to the main board (not a fun time) - basically i taught myself and i'm sure anyone can do it if they just have confidence.
anyway, good deal on finding someone to help you out.