Here is what I use for an onstage recording stand (
http://www.white-lightning.com/ls1100.html).
Specs:
The LS1100 Light Stand is the perfect stand for back/hair lights, and is ideal for lighting a backdrop as well. You can hide a flash unit on the backlight stand directly behind your subject to light your backdrop, or cast a rim light on your subject. The 3-section light stand has a 45.5-inch maximum height, with a 17-inch maximum footprint, collapsing to 17 inches for travel.
LS1100 Backlight Stand
Max. Height 45.5"
Min. Height 18.5"
Footprint 17" max.
Collapsed length 17"
Total weight 2 lbs.
Weight held 6 lbs.
Best used for lighter units and lightweight accessories.
Price $24.95
Comes with 1/4"-20 male threads on top.