Stereo delay is used on most mixes in the studio. I could name a bunch: I just cued up three artists from my juke box--Mariah Carey, Stacie Orrico, Eric Clapton, and Foreigner all had delays between the two channels on the same instrument or on vocals.
The purity of the sound is bullshit, and I realized that since I bought my first volume pedle and echo-plex in 1964.
Mixing is an art form. Reverse phasing, delays, echo units all contribute to the sound in the studio. Don't let anyone tell you whats right or wrong in music. Only you know what sounds good. My advice is for you to experiment do what you like. You are making this for you to listen to.