Success!! I asked a familiar face at the venue if he thought she'd mind, and he went back and asked, "She wants a copy". No problems! Except for a couple jackasses, but there's at least one in every crowd.
After the show I went up to her at the backstage entrance and said "How would I go about getting you a copy of your show tonight?" She said "Ummmmmmmmm . . . " and eventually turned away; I stood there looking like an idiot for a minute and then split. I guess I'll send a copy to her management company and hope she gets it. . .
The show was GREAT! She is an eccentric, and did stop a couple songs before they were finished, but nothing as crazy as some of the stories I've heard (playing 3 songs and leaving the stage in tears, etc.). Good stuff.
Thanks
Sloan