Is this an open recording situation?
If so and if your Sony mic is as bad as you and everyone else says it is, then you may be better off using the internal mics in the recorder. I know, Blasphemy! But they really aren't that bad.
I've only used the internal mics for recording my own guitar twanging around the house a few times, but the they are far better than the lackluster, too closely spaced omnis in the old R-09. The mics in the DR2d are are cardioid and may work fine
as long as you can get them up in the air and point the recorder in the right direction. Only problem with that is if you screw the entire recorder to the top of a stand, the controls face the sky and you can't monitor levels or use the controls on the unit easily, however you can use the IR remote to control the transport and will be able to see the LED between input jacks to confirm that the deck is either paused (blinking) or recording (steady). You need to point the remote at that LED when you use it. If you end up doing that, then set the low cut to 40 or maybe 80Hz if the bass is really heavy and it might actually help, 120 Hz is too much and will sound thin, pale and wimpy, much like the snot nosed kid that will be standing next to you. Might be fine for an 80's metal band that's all screach an no bottom balls, but you want some of the punch of that double-pedal kick drum that all self-respecting modern metal band drummer rock and the fat low-G bass, right?
If you can't get the recorder up in the air on a stand, or set it or attach it somewhere with a clear and direct line of sight to the PA, then don't use the internals. Do not try to record with the internals from your pocket, you'll only confirm the reasons that people say 'never use the internal mics'
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If you use the Sony mic, the same advice applies- get the mic up in the air with a clean sight line to the PA. Using the low cut on the recorder will do nothing to keep the mic from overloading with bass or the input stage of the rocorder from saturating. It will only remove some of the already distorted bass, which you can do a much better job of yourself afterwards with EQ on the computer. That's because the low cut is done after the input stage. I'd set it to 40Hz and not worry or 80Hz if really bassy and you don't feel comfortable doing EQ later. 120Hz = skinny pale kid.
Regardless of the mics used, set the mic input to low sensitivity, and turn off the limiters and auto gain controls. Turn on
dual recording and set it to -12dB. Clap as loudly as you can near the mics as you set input levels so you are just below clipping on the loud claps. Your second, lower-level file will have 12dB of additional headroom.
Go record some local bar band this weekend to figure it all out. The ampitheater show will be the same, only louder.
When your big day arrives, you'll have the confidence of having done it already, go wherever it sounds cleanest in the venue and record from there.