Tom, you've hit on the reason I put my little rhetorical question in quote marks: In the particular way that I put it, it isn't actually any better-founded than the statement I was using it to criticize. And its logical weakness is just as you said: The null of a well-made figure-8 is typically 20+ dB below the sensitivity of the "M" channel microphone across the entire audio range. So within a certain wedge of sound-arrival angles, the "S" channel's contribution just isn't audibly significant. This corresponds to the very center of the stereo image in playback--it pretty much all comes from the "M" mike.
But when you get, say, 30 degrees or farther away from the null, it's quite another matter. I think I've already told the story of my sad attempt, over a decade ago by now, to use a pair of Neumann KM 86 microphones for Blumlein stereo with a very energetic-sounding soprano soloist. The KM 86 was an excellent microphone for a lot of things, but look at its polar diagram in the figure-8 setting as shown below: It has a sizeable high-frequency response peak around ±45° (for those not versed in reading polar diagrams, the main point to note is the difference between the 8 kHz and the 1 kHz response around those angles). And those, of course, are the angles that face forward in a Blumlein setup; consequently the soprano voice came out harsh, almost spitty sounding. For the same reason, that figure-8 would be a poor choice as the "S" microphone in an M/S pair.
My point ("and I do have one," as Ellen DeGeneres says) is that the wrong virtue is being claimed for the front-facing microphone in an M/S pair. Historically, M/S was introduced as a mono-compatible stereo recording approach--as contrasted with spaced-omni stereo, which causes huge comb filter effects when you sum the channels. That distinction harks back to the 1950s when stereo records and FM radio were still new, and most people, even hi-fi enthusiasts, still had mono systems (I remember the single, big Electro-Voice speaker in our living room). In western Europe the classical music broadcasters were still publicly controlled, and they adopted a policy of using compatible stereo recording methods so as not to stick the majority of their listeners with bad sound.
(Incidentally, the whole way stereo FM works is directly analogous to M/S recording--the main carrier conveys the mono, L+R sum, a subcarrier carries an L-R difference signal, and these two signals are converted to L/R stereo by sum-and-difference matrixing inside the tuner or radio. A similar analogy could even be made with the vertical and horizontal modulation of phonograph grooves, with horizontal = M and vertical = S, except that stereo phonograph cartridges didn't generally pick up vertical and horizontal modulation separately.)
The real advantage of a front-facing "M" microphone isn't any beneficial effect on the resulting L/R stereo signal. Rather, it's the benefit that it has for the sound quality of the compatible mono signal--because that signal isn't derived by summing the off-axis response of two microphones as it would be given an X/Y recording (imagine how a mono version of my Blumlein recording would have sounded given the ±45° shown in the polar diagrams!), but rather, it is delivered directly by a single, high-quality, forward-facing "M" microphone--the "S" microphone being totally out of the picture where mono playback is concerned.
I could say more about this, and I probably will eventually, but I've talked long enough for one evening already.
--best regards