I'm assuming the thrust of your needs are something to be used in a theater/tight space, and something with a small footprint.
As I noted in an old thread, I bought this:
http://www.bhphotovideo.com/c/product/284734-REG/Lowel_UN_55_Uni_TO_Light_Stand.htmland chopped about a foot off the legs, so the legs still sit flat on the floor but the footprint is about a foot total. You lose about a foot of height, to 7' down from 8'. But folded, it's still only 21 inches long. So this works great for tight theater seats and FOB. I used it the another night in a theater with
really tight seat space. I have also taken this (all metal) stand to outdoor concerts. I just bring along a compact extension (a Manfrotto 099 or the smaller Impact and can go to 10-12 feet. That's only useful if you want a very compact kit (put in a backpack) and are willing to sacrifice a bit of stability. I either gaff it, stake it, or use an ankle weight (10#). I never use it un-anchored, although in the theater the other night it stood up fine by itself and I just kept it between my legs.