I took my list down years ago. I was getting like 10 grovels a day and I really want to be nice, but I can't be THAT nice (and this was before readily available broadband so it was a serious PIA).
As for the bitch comment, well that's more a matter of opinion. The other remark is a matter of fact that's either true or not, but I don't necessarily see it as a bad trait in a woman...